Aceh and Bengkulu are included in the top list of the poorest regions of Sumatra, in fact, are in the top ten in Indonesia. Aceh with a large budget both from APBA, special autonomy funds and oil and gas revenue sharing funds, but poverty is still a fetter for the people of Aceh. It is not wrong if many question the government policies that are always echoed to alleviate poverty. This paper wants to describe in detail the government policies in alleviating poverty, it is right on target or it still dwells on the poverty alleviation discourse, and programs that are proclaimed are only limited to ideals that are not in accordance with the reality and needs of society.

Malee (ashamed) is a demeanor that refuses to do something when in contradiction with the local value of religion and local wisdom in the Aceh's lives today. The demeanor of Malee is shown when it comes to a man who is not they husband or they family. This behavior was instilled early in the parents of Aceh, for girls not so easily open a relationship with a man or anyone who wants to get close or got a desire for a despicable. For instance, as a girl, it would be a shame to welcome a male guest at home or to travel with a man somewhere quiet. This tenet is still deeply embedded in the lives of the Acehnese society. However, recently as social media influences and the spread of content leads to pornography, and also a chance for children and teenagers to get access to cell phones and the internet, the case of prenuptial relations more increase. Aceh has a philosophy of malee and running the law of syariat Islam affected by this free of life phenomenon. For that reason, this research is done to found the factor of dimming the shame that children and teenagers are less likely to be affected by the free life and valueless.