“…It is acceptable in most gay communities to be openly sexual, to have multiple partners, to negotiate openly for sex, and to enjoy sex freely (Bronski, 2000;Crossley, 2004). Given this, there may be less permission for gay (Schope, 2005;Smit et al, 2012;Wierzalis, Barret, Pope, & Rankins, 2006), older MSM may experience a pressure to look attractive and often are expected to be able to follow through on any sexual opportunities that arise. It is also much more acceptable and possible in some gay subcultures to use sex as a way to deal with stress and feelings of isolation (Murray & Adam, 2001).…”