The communication capacity control of the computer wireless network is the basis for realizing the efficient communication of massive data. In order to study the communication capacity control technology of the computer wireless network, improve the control effect of a large amount of data communication, and calculate the capacity of the wireless network in real time, this paper uses the fuzzy wavelet neural network to predict the wireless network channel. After the interference-free channel is obtained, the load balancing strategy of the ant colony optimization algorithm is used to filter the channel, and the channel allocation sequence with the most balanced load distribution is obtained, and a priority selection list is generated. After discretizing the channels in the largest discretization selection list, the channel sequence is allocated to the pair of nodes with communication requests according to the greedy coloring algorithm, so as to realize the communication capacity control of the computer wireless network. The test results show that the technology can guarantee good communication performance in both static and dynamic networks and can effectively complete network communication of massive data, and the communication capacity control effect is good.