Cryptic species diversity is a major challenge for the species-rich community of parasitoids attacking oak gall wasps due to a high degree of sexual dimorphism, morphological plasticity, small size, and poorly known biology. As such, we know very little about the number of species present, nor the evolutionary forces responsible for generating this diversity. One hypothesis is that trait diversity in the gall wasps, including the morphology of the galls they induce, have evolved in response to selection imposed by the parasitoid community, with reciprocal selection driving diversification of the parasitoids. Using a rare continental scale data set of Sycophila parasitoid wasps reared from 44 species of cynipid galls from 18 species of oak across the US, we combined mitochondrial DNA barcodes, Ultraconserved Elements (UCEs), morphological, and natural history data to delimit putative species. We also generate the first large-scale assessment of ecological specialization and host association in this species-rich group with implications for evolutionary ecology and biocontrol. We find most Sycophila target multiple gall wasp species with similar gall morphologies and are generally associated with smaller galls. This result suggests that parasitoid wasps such as Sycophila have adaptations allowing them to exploit particular host trait combinations, while hosts with contrasting traits are resistant to attack. With our congruence-based method of species delimitation, our study has nearly doubled the number of Sycophila wasps among the lineages studied, which highlights the need for taxonomic revision of Sycophila, as many species cannot be identified morphologically or by using molecular delimitation methods.