We establish a set of US stylized facts on prices, quantities and balance sheets, assess the consistency of the current generation of financial friction (heterogeneous agent) models to these, and provide guidance on the challenges ahead. We find strong evidence for a deep transformation in the US economy around the millenium shift, and argue that the difficulty in reviving this growth model under current financial market conditions is behind the anemic recovery since the Great Recession. A wider implication of our findings is that accumulation of stocks might alter agents risk preferences, production technologies, or beliefs to such a degree that the optimization problem that those agents face has transformed over time. The economy is effectively in a different state of nature, and agents may face different constraints. Future models need to take a different strategy to modelling the long-run ratios, since these have increased over the long-run and this has had an effect on both the frequency and the amplitude of the business and credit cycles.