Synaptic crosstalk, which occurs due to the overflow of neurotransmitters between neighboring synapses, holds a crucial position in shaping the discharge characteristics and signal transmission within nervous systems. In this paper, two memristors are employed to simulate biological neural synapses and bidirectionally couple Chialvo discrete neuron and Rulkov discrete neuron. Thus, a heterogeneous discrete neural network with memristor-synapse coupling is constructed that takes into account the crosstalk behavior between memristor synapses in the coupled state. The analysis demonstrates that the quantity and stability of fixed points within this neural network intimately depend on the strength of synaptic crosstalk. Additionally, through a thorough investigation of bifurcation diagrams, phase diagrams, Lyapunov exponents, and time sequences, we uncover the multi-stable state property exhibited by the neural network. This property manifests in the coexistence of diverse discharge behaviors, which vary significantly with the synaptic crosstalk strength. Intriguingly, the introduction of control parameter to state variable triggers offset boosting and the emergence of infinite stable states within the neural network. Furthermore, we conducted a comprehensive study to explore the influence of synaptic crosstalk strength on the synchronization behavior of the neural network, considering various coupling strengths, initial conditions, and parameters. Our analysis, which was founded on the phase difference and synchronization factor of neuronal discharge sequences, revealed that the neural network maintains phase synchronization despite the variations of the two crosstalk strengths. The insights gained from this paper provide significant support in elucidating the electrophysiological mechanisms underlying biological neural information processing and transmission. Especially, the coexisting discharge phenomenon in the neural network provides an electrophysiological theoretical foundation for the clinical symptoms and diagnosis of the same neurological disease among different individuals or at different stages. And the doctors can predict the progression and prognosis of neurological disease based on the patterns and characteristics of coexisting discharge in patients, enabling them to adopt appropriate intervention measures and monitoring plans. Therefore, the research on coexisting discharge in the neural system contributes to the comprehensive treatment of nervous system disease.