The actuator is the key to the stepless capacity control system of a reciprocating compressor. The coupling effect between the actuator and the reciprocating compressor was not considered in the traditional design, and the large design margin led to low system reliability, high cost and low safety. In this paper, a reciprocating compressor and actuator were taken as research objects. The backflow clearance of the suction valve was simulated by CFD (computational fluid dynamics), The relationship between backflow clearance and resultant gas force of the valve plate was discussed. By building a mathematical model of actuators considering backflow clearance and impact rebound, the relationship between the parameters of actuators was studied. Based on the mathematical model and CFD analysis, the hydraulic force and spring stiffness were taken as the design variables, the impact velocity of ejection or withdrawal and the backflow clearance were taken as objective functions, and the actuator parameters were optimized with NSGA-II (Non-dominated Sorting Genetic Algorithm – II). The optimization results show that when the backflow clearance is 0.0065 mm, the hydraulic force is 94.25 N, and the spring stiffness is 11,575.84 N/m, the objective functions are optimized, the parameters are significantly improved, and a good effect is achieved on the experimental table of a 2D reciprocating compressor.