“There Is No Official Divorce Ritual in the Church”—Challenging a Mantra by Ritual Design

Abstract

End-of-relationship rituals are not respected within Protestant churches. Therefore, many church websites emphasize that there are no official divorce rituals to this day. This is despite the fact that there are numerous impulses for divorce rituals, some of which are also firmly established in church practice. Practitioners who devote themselves to these rituals often have to be innovative. This article presents three unpublished drafts for separation rituals, which are understood as expressions of ritual design. Experiences from academic teaching show that the field divorce rituals is particularly suitable for initiating learning processes on ritual design, a skill of great importance for future pastors. Although divorce rituals are unpopular now, they are likely to become part of the standard repertoire of churches soon.

Divorce Rites as a Way of Dealing with a Life Course Transition: The Case of Contemporary Italy

“…Civil celebrants are being formed to celebrate life's transition events, including divorce (Hoondert 2019). Some religions are exploring the possibility of shaping a religious rite of divorce (Ramshaw 1987;Teig 1990;Bianca 2015;Jenkins 2014;Lauxmann 2023). Some films and music begin to talk about marital dissolution by giving a representation of the rituals of divorce.…”