The study of neuron model under electromagnetic radiation is significant for learning brain principles and treating mental diseases. In this paper, a novel discrete locally active memristor(DLAM) model is designed and its characteristics are investigated thoroughly. Then, the DLAM is used to imitate electromagnetic radiation to stimulate Aihara neuron, called EMR-Aihara neuron model. The equilibrium point of this discrete model is analyzed. Dynamical characteristics are studied by means of phase diagram, iteration sequence, bifurcation diagram, Lyapunov Exponent spectrum(LEs), Kolmogorow entropy(KE) and Spectral Entropy(SE) complexity. With these analysis methods, rich dynamical behaviors and neuron firing patterns are discovered from the EMR-Aihara neuron map, including hyperchaos, chaos and period. In addition, complex multistability and state transition phenomena concerning various attractors and neuron firing modes are observed. This EMR-Aihara neuron map is implemented in digital circuit by DSP platform as well, confirming the physical availability of the model. The EMR-Aihara neuron model can simulate biological neuron under electromagnetic radiation and apply to image encryption.