“…The emphasis we found on changing children's surnames in English adoption law and policy is, then, a representation of normative (patriarchal, heteronormative) ideas about surnames and family and kinship identities of 'belonging', and of men's privileged embodied named identities (Pilcher 2017). These patriarchal, (hetero)normative assumptions are embedded in adoption law and policy despite evidence, first, of the decreasing reliability of surnames for signaling family in contexts of diverse, fluid, and complicated kinship relations (Davies 2011, Finch 2008, Klett-Davis 2012, and second, that most adoptive couples who are same-sex give their child(ren) a hyphenated surname, created from the surname of each parent (Patterson and Farr 2017). Yet the emphasis we found in the texts on changing children's surnames could also be a recognition that, in being a family form that is already 'other', sharing a surname may be especially meaningful for families formed through adoption (e.g., Patterson and Farr 2017), including for adopted children themselves (Beek and Schofield 2002;Sinclair, Wilson, and Gibbs, 2001).…”