In the context of the “carbon peaking and carbon neutrality goals”, the new electricity systems are evolving towards source-load friendly interactions. At the same time, the increasing necessity for adjustable loads to participate in the power balance of the new electricity systems is highlighted. Consequently, a large-scale source-grid-load design scheme is proposed. It employs three independent communication channels to facilitate communication between users and intelligent grid-load terminals. Based on analysis of the individual loads and equipment characteristics of each user, principles for user shunt load access principle and adjustable loads are formulated by combining the maximum duration, frequency constraints, and compliance costs. Furthermore, it proposes construction plans for both the customer side in a single distribution room and the customer side distributed across different locations. According to the experimental analysis of 245 users, the response time of the experimental system is less than 600 ms. These advancements enhance the emergency response speed and responsiveness, contributing to the advancement of precise, real-time, and lean management of the demand side of the power grid.