The efficient C-H polarization is the prerequisite for the low-temperature photocatalytic CH4 conversion, which however is restricted by the poor stretching ability of short-distanced lattice atoms. Herein, frustrated Lewis pair (FLP) composed of doped ion in TiO2 as Lewis acid (LA) and neighboring Ti-OH as Lewis base (LB) with a long distance (0.31-0.37 nm) were designed through DFT calculation and fabricated by hydrogenation treatment of metal-doped TiO2-SiO2 with macroporous-mesoporous structure. Benefitting from the long LA-LB distance and matched acid-base intensity, hydrogenated Ga-doped composite achieves superior C-H stretching with a high CH4 conversion rate (139 µmol g−1 h−1) to ethane. The photo-irradiation causes the electron excitation from Ga to Ti-OH according to the time-dependent DFT calculation and in situ EPR analysis, which promotes the formation and coupling of ·CH3. This work provides a key underpinning for regulating the characteristics of FLP for C-H activation and C-C coupling via light irradiation.