“…Various studies agree that it is imperative to have a continuity of programmes available because, for the majority of the cases, it is not encouraging the child to be reunited with (extended) family immediately (Berckmans et al, ; Ferguson, Dabir, Dortzbach, Dyrness, & Spruijt‐Metz, ; Harris et al, ). Berckmans et al () state that the gradual continuity of programmes enables children to develop trust in services that do not require a large personal commitment, such as a soup‐kitchen or drop‐in centre. Thereafter, children tend to develop the trust and courage required to make more serious commitments to shelters and long‐stay programmes.…”