We consider decays of B and K mesons into a pseudo-scalar or vector meson plus missing energy. Within the SM, these modes originate from flavor changing neutral current (FCNC) processes with two neutrinos in the final state. In this paper we consider the experimental upper bounds on these modes and interpret the difference between these bounds and the SM prediction as a window into new light invisible particles. In particular we consider the case where some new symmetry requires the new particles to be produced in pairs. We first construct the general low energy effective Lagrangian coupling an FCNC with two dark sector particles of spin zero, one-half and one. We then present numerical estimates for the constraints that can be placed on these interactions, finding that an effective new physics scale from $$ \mathcal{O} $$
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(10)-$$ \mathcal{O} $$
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(1011) GeV can be probed, with the exact value strongly depending on the interaction structure as well as the mass of the invisible particle. For "Image missing" we incorporate into our constraints the effect of using only the signal regions of NA62, and for "Image missing" the q2-dependent efficiency of Belle II.