“…However, if S nonetheless gets away with the confrontational linguistic act, and H for whatever reason does not retaliate, ''S [thereby] succeeds in actually altering the public definition of his relationship to H: that is, his successful exploitation becomes part of the history of interaction, and thereby alters the agreed values of D [social distance between S and H] or P [relative power between S and H]'' (Brown and Levinson, 1978, p. 228). Social distance typically refers to the symmetrical notions of social similarity and familiarity whereas social power typically refers to the asymmetrical notions of differences in relative social rank and relative social control (Nevala, 2004). Further, it has been noted by scholars that for most Americans power typically implies distance whereas solidarity typically implies closeness (Tannen, 1993, p. 26).…”