“…A nna Freud (1958) wrote '"that there are few situations in life more difficult to cope with than an adolescent son or daughter during their attempt to liberate themselves" (p. 278). Described as the most difficult stage of parenthood (e.g., Fisher & Fisher, 1976;McKenry, Price-Bonham, & O'Bryant, 1981;Pasley & Gecas, 1984), the adolescent period is associated with high levels of stress for family members (Aldous, 1978;Field & Widmayer, 1982) as well as increased marital discord (Gove & Peterson, 1980;Rapoport, Rapoport, & Strelitz, 1980). For the woman, whose identity is defined primarily through her relationships of intimacy and care (Gilligan, 1982), mothering the adolescent may entail an especially painful emotional struggle.…”