“…Alliance is defined as the patient and therapist sharing common goals or purpose with the therapy, with the patient's sense of safety and trust in the therapy process and in the therapist, while the relational concept of being together describes the many layers of the moment-to-moment intermodal exchange, affect attunement and the matrix of intermodal equivalence in the relationship between patient and therapist. Being together holds the paradox of individuation growing out of symbiosis within the earliest and most basic modes of communication far beyond words (Daniel, 2006;Crits-Cristoph & Connolly-Gibbons, 2001;Hilsenroth & Cromer, 2007;Jørgensen, 2004;Kolden et al, 2005;Kumin, 1996;Lambert, 2004;Norcross & Wampold, 2011;Puchner et al, 2005;Stern, 1985;Stern, 2004). An early established and strong alliance predicts continuation but the contrary does not doom the therapy since the therapist's skill may remedy (Puchner et al, 2005).…”