“…Being a boy, especially a heterosexual boy, means not caring about relationships, especially same-sex friendships [Way, 2011]. Being a boy of color, particularly Black or Latino from low-income communities, means not caring about or being capable of doing well in school, and being obsessed with sex [Ghavami & Peplau, 2013;Nasir et al, 2012;Rogers, Niwa, & Way, 2017]. Being an Asian American boy means being good at math but lacking social and emotional skills [Cvencek, Nasir, O'Connor, Wischnia, & Meltzoff, 2015;Way, 2011].…”