Analisis Perlakuan Verbal Bullying pada Remaja

Abstract

Cases of bullying are increasing day by day in Indonesia, which is not only done by adults but also teenagers and has an impact on teenagers. One type of bullying that is done by teenagers is verbal bullying. Verbal bullying is defined as an act of violence that is carried out verbally through words, such as insulting, mocking, or ridiculing. Many cases of bullying occur in teenagers. As a result of continuous bullying, it can affect self-confidence and mental health in adolescents who are victims of verbal bullying. This study aims to describe how the treatment of verbal bullying on adolescent victims of bullying. The method used in this study is a qualitative descriptive method. This study was conducted on 4 adolescent victims of bullying (1 boy, 3 girls; age 14-22 years; students and college students) through interviews. The data were analyzed using an interactive model consisting of three steps including data reduction, data presentation and drawing conclusions. The results showed that the treatment of verbal bullying on adolescents had positive and negative impacts, but the analysis showed that the negative impact was mostly caused by the treatment of bullying. On the positive impact it teaches children to be able to understand if they are in the position of victims of bullying so that they make children aware not to do that, mentally awaken children who are victims of verbal bullying to stay strong. While the negative impact is making children who are victims of verbal bullying become insecure, have psychological trauma because not all children can accept it. Based on this, parents, teachers and counselors work together to help and protect teenagers who are victims of bullying, giving teens the opportunity to understand what bullying is. For orders, it is necessary to enforce the law for bullying behavior so that bullying behavior is reduced and there is no more bullying so that teenagers become safe and comfortable without bullying. Teenagers are advised to consult with BK teachers in schools so that Guidance and Counseling services can be provided including information services, individual counseling services with a behavioral approach, group guidance services, classical services and mediation services to prevent violence in adolescents.

Cirebon Coastal Adolescents' Use of Taboo Language and Its Relation to Parental Education

“…Strong language as a form of bullying by adolescents at school is where students ridicule the physical deficiencies or weaknesses of other students and students give nicknames or names that are not good for other students (Ani & Nurhayati, 2019). Verbal violence at school in the form of insults, ridicule, accusations and harsh words addressed by adolescents at school to their friends because of their physical condition, such as thick lips, abnormal walking, and slurred speech (Suri et al, 2022). The use of foul language at school increased among boys compared to young girls in the 28 high schools studied.…”

Strategi Guru Bimbingan Dan Konseling Dalam Menangani Perundungan (Bullying)

“…Perundungan adalah perilaku agresif yang dilakuan oleh seseorang atau kelompok dengan tujuan untuk menyakiti individu lain, baik secara fisik maupun psikis (Kallman et al, 2021). Ketidaksadaran yang dimiliki oleh pelaku, korban, dan saksi menjadi salah satu alasan mengapa perundungan masih tetap terjadi (Suri et al, 2022). Menurut Gladden et al (2014), ada dua bentuk dari perundungan, yakni secara langsung yang merupakan perilaku agresif yang terjadi di hadapan siswa atau korban yang sudah direncanakan atau ditargetkan dan secara tidak langsung yang merupakan perilaku agresif dengan tidak secara langsung dikomunikasikan kepada siswa atau korban yang ditargetkan.…”

Use of Behavioral Cognitive-Based Innovative Creative Counseling to Prevent Student Bullying Behavior

“…Bullying seakan-akan sudah menjadi tradisi yang rutin terjadi sehingga menimbulkan pola diantara remaja. Bullying bukan saja bisa terjadi karena tradisi yang dilestarikan, tetapi juga bisa terjadi Jurnal Neo Konseling, Open Access Journal: http://neo.ppj.unp.ac.id/index.php/neo karena ketidaksadaran seorang pelaku, korban dan saksi yang berujung terhadap tindakan bullying (Suri et al, 2022). Bullying merupakan tindakan dimana sesorang yang seringkali digunakan untuk menyakiti, menghina, menekan, dan menjatuhkan mental serta mengontrol orang lain dengan cara kekerasan sehingga korban (victims) biasanya tidak dapat berbuat apa-apa dan menerima segala bentuk perilaku dari orang lain tersebut (Dianes, 2019).…”