Let n ∈ N and X(n) = (X 1 (n), . . . , X d(n) (n)) be a sequence of random vectors. We prove that, under certain dependence conditions, the cdf of the maximum of X i (n) asymptotically equals to the cdf of the maximum of a random vector with the same but independent marginal distributions. To prove our result on extremal independence, we obtain new lower and upper bounds on the probability that none of a given finite set of events occurs. Using our result, we show that, under certain conditions, including Berman-type condition, a sequence of Gaussian random vectors possesses the extremal independence property. We also prove that certain extremal characterstics of binomial random graphs and hypergraphs, after an appropriate rescaling, have asymptotical Gumbel distribution (in particular, maximum codegrees in random hypergraphs and the maximum number of cliques sharing a given vertex in random graphs).