“…Unfortunately, for couples who are unable to resolve their conflict either on their own or with the help of others, marital distress often arises (Karney & Bradbury, ). In light of the potential damage conflict can do, not only to the marriage, but to the well‐being of those both within the marriage and the family (Fincham & Beach, ; Kiecolt‐Glaser & Newton, ), it is not surprising that millions of dollars in government funds have been spent trying to understand the nature of marital conflict and its antecedents and consequences (Hawkins, Amato, & Kinghorn, ). To enhance the efficacy of these efforts, it is important to not only study those who fail to resolve marital conflict, but also couples who appear to handle conflict better and make it functional within their marriage (Gottman & Krokoff, ; Weiss & Heyman, ).…”