For weights ρ which are either radial on the unit ball or depend only on the vertical coordinate on the upper half-space, we describe the asymptotic behaviour of the corresponding weighted harmonic Bergman kernels with respect to ρ α as α → +∞. This can be compared to the analogous situation for the holomorphic case, which is of importance in the Berezin quantization as well as in complex geometry.1991 Mathematics Subject Classification. Primary 46E22; Secondary 31B05, 32A36.