“…Previous research has employed retrospective accounts to examine numerous psychological phenomena, including teasing (Kowalski, 2000), unrequited love (Baumeister, Wotman, & Stillwell, 1993), interpersonal rejection (e.g., , and ego-shock (Campbell, Baumeister, Dhavale, & Tice, 2003). Although some research suggests that people often emphasize social acceptance or rejection in accounts of events that changed their self-esteem (e.g., Baumeister, Dori, & Hastings, 1998), this research did not probe for other types of events that reportedly affected self-esteem. Thus, in Study 4, we looked for references to feelings of both competence and acceptance in participants' narrative accounts.…”