This paper introduces the concept of hesitant bipolar-valued fuzzy graph (HBVFG), which captures the two opposing perspectives, namely the positive and negative opinions. The novelty, importance and implications of this concept are illustrated by some results, examples, and graphical representations. There are, respectively, some theoretical terms of graphs such as partial directed hesitant bipolar-valued fuzzy subgraph (HBVFSG), directed HBVFSG, directed spanning HBVFSG, strong directed HBVFG and complete directed HBVFG which are introduced. The operations, such as Cartesian, direct, lexicographical, and strong products, are also defined between two HBVFGs with examples. The mapping relations, such as homomorphism, isomorphism, weak isomorphism, and co-weak isomorphism, are derived with an example. The applications of directed HBVFGs with algorithms for finding the optimal path in a network and the dominant node and influence of index with the self-persistence degree of a node in a social network are presented. For each problem, an algorithm is developed and its effectiveness is demonstrated by examples. The proposed concept is assessed in terms of theory and practice. The benefits of the proposed solution are highlighted and a clear comparison is made with the existing methods.