The electrocatalytic C–N coupling reaction can achieve green and sustainable urea synthesis as well as CO2 conversion and nitrogen fixation. However, the electrocatalytic C–N coupling reaction still faces challenges such as difficult adsorption and activation of reactive species, a large number of reactive intermediates, high reaction energy barriers, and inert reactive kinetics, resulting in the low urea yielding rate and Faradic efficiency. The development of efficient catalysts is key to improve the urea yielding rate and Faradic efficiency. This review covers the development history and basic principles of electrocatalytic C–N coupling for urea production, analyzes the nanostructure–catalytic activity relationship as well as the electronic structure–catalytic activity relationship, and discusses the main reaction mechanism of electrocatalytic C–N coupling for urea production. Based on these analyses, the concept of designing efficient C–N coupling catalysts is derived. Finally, the research status of electrocatalytic C–N coupling for urea synthesis is summarized, and the prospect for developing efficient electrocatalysts and C–N coupling mechanism are proposed.