Researchers have reported a higher incidence of same-sex attractions among individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) but little is known about the sexual and intimate relationships of these individuals. In this study, 5 men in middle adulthood with ASD who acknowledged attractions to other men were interviewed and the interviews were analyzed utilizing Interpretative Phenomenological Analysis. Four themes were identified. First, these men want and have had intimate and sexual relationships, and there is considerable diversity in the types of relationships they have experienced. Second, they have experienced challenges to initiating and maintaining these relationships. Third, they have struggled with integrating their sexual and autism identities. Fourth, they have experienced insufficient support from professionals and their communities. This study contributes to dispelling the myth that individuals with ASD do not desire intimate-partner relationships or are unable to sustain them.
Public Significance StatementThis study found that men in middle adulthood who have autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and same-sex attractions can initiate and maintain satisfying and successful relationships with other men. However, these men might experience obstacles to meeting partners and might feel disconnected from other lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer (LGBTQ) individuals. The study highlights a need for professionals who are trained in both ASD and human sexuality to work with this population.