This paper examines what parental responsibility means when an adolescent child is sent to prison, where the traditional parenting relationship seemingly ends and parens patriae or penal control comes into full force. Paradoxically, we argue that even in these restricted spaces of contact, parenting continues, albeit in a form which runs into frequent tension with the care/control modalities of the prison itself. Our data further demonstrate the importance of addressing a constellation of social adversities experienced by caregivers, in conjunction with the collateral consequences of offending and incarceration. Data are drawn from interviews with primary caregivers with young men in prison (n ¼ 61).Research into the experience of primary caregivers who maintain relations with incarcerated children is incredibly sparse. This contrasts with a related (and now vast) body of research which has documented the effects of incarceration on families, typically through the perspective of intimate partners or children whose parents are in prison (e.