We report Raman scattering measurements of BaC6, SrC6, YbC6, and CaC6, which permit a systematic study of the phonons and the electron-phonon interaction within the doped graphene layers of these compounds. The out-of-plane carbon phonon softens as the spacing of the graphene layers is reduced in the series BaC6, SrC6, YbC6, and CaC6. This is due to increasing charge in the π * electronic band. Electron-phonon interaction effects between the in-plane carbon modes at ≈ 1500 cm −1 and the π * electrons cause a strong non-adiabatic renormalization. As charge is transferred into the π * band these non-adiabatic effects are found to increase concurrent with a reduction in the phonon lifetime.