“…So even if that was just very briefly explained to me – that it is possible to have a child and not have them be HIV-positive, so if you ever did want children, you can go about seeking it, and we’ve got this support group or this organisation that you can go to… Unsure ‘if it’s even possible for me to have a child’, Ben emphasised his limited knowledge about HIV transmission. The incomplete understanding of how HIV is passed on was another common theme in patient interviews, as we discuss in detail elsewhere [ 33 ]. Another man, Lewis, in his early 30s, shared his memories from the time he was diagnosed, explaining what kind of information he wished he had received: ‘At the time [I was diagnosed], I thought, well, long-term partnerships are done – you know, nobody will want to be with me, unless it’s out of pity.…”