Modeling forms the basis for optimal control of complex technical processes in the context of industry 4.0 development and, hence, for high product quality as well as efficient production. For the mechanical joining process of self-pierce riveting with 11 input and 5 output variables, two modeling approaches based on (1) experimental data and (2) FEM computer simulation are outlined and performed. A physical modeling approach is ruled out due to the high problem dimensionality and complex nonlinear dynamic relationships between input and output variables. Alternatively, data-based approaches lead to Artificial Intelligence (AI) model designs. The experimental approach is cost- and resource-consuming; therefore, only a relatively small data set can be collected. Here, we present results from experimental trials that serve as representatives and are generalized by a description with high-dimensional parametric membership functions (fuzzification). The fuzzification procedure is also applied to the FEM computer simulation results. In principle, it can provide an arbitrarily large database. However, consequently, time- and computational effort increase considerably. Both data sets form the basis for parallel model building using the AI method of local fuzzy pattern models, which can be used to describe highly nonlinear input-output relationships by error-minimizing partitioning. Finally, the comparison of the results of the two modeling approaches is outlined. Finally, a coupled modeling strategy and future model adaptation are proposed.