In this chapter, we use attachment theory as a framework to begin the pathway to conceptualization of therapists' responsiveness to their clients by considering the responsiveness of parents to their infants. Research in developmental psychology on mother-infant attachment flourished following Ainsworth et al.'s (1978) groundbreaking strange situation paradigm. First, we touch on the nature of early infant-parent interaction to highlight the centrality of responsiveness in infant-parent bonds. Second, we consider key concepts in attachment theory that are applicable to responsiveness in psychotherapy: the provision of a secure base by parents and by therapists and internal working models and relationship representations. We then turn to consider attachment dynamics in psychotherapy, focusing on therapist responsiveness to client attachment needs through regulating therapeutic distance. We provide narrative illustrations (derived from interviews with clients about their experiences with their therapists) that depict lack of responsiveness and appropriate responsiveness, as well as misattunement and attunement. Finally, we present relevant assessment tools for attachment processes and research.
RESPONSIVENESS IN THE ATTACHMENT PATHWAYConsidering conceptualizations of responsiveness by diverse theoretical approaches in relationship science, Reis (2013) viewed attachment theory as featuring caregiver responsiveness to infants' expressions of need or distress as accounting for socioemotional development. As Bowlby (1969/1982) first theorized and Ainsworth et al.'s (1978 subsequent research confirmed, infants with caregivers who respond sensitively and supportively to them learn to be confident about their caregivers' availability and responsiveness. This sense of confidence, or felt security, is internalized and generalized to other caregivers, providing a foundation for the development of secure internal working models that serve the individual throughout life. Thus, attunement and appropriate parent responsiveness to infants' needs are the hallmark of secure attachment. In relation to the findings of prospective studies on the association between infant attachment and maternal responsive behavior, Holmes (1993) stated, "Mothers of secure one-year-olds are responsive to their babies, mothers of insecure-avoidants are unresponsive, and mothers of insecure-ambivalents are inconsistently responsive" (p. 107).