This chapterfocuses on developmental changes in romantic relations of adolescents diflering in health status. Whereas healthy adolescents were increasingly able to balance both intimacy and conflict in their relationships with romantic partners, diabetic adolescents were unable to experience both positive and negative relationship qualities. Although this developmental delay was partly overcome, after four years some dgerences were still noticeable.The Capacity to Balance Intimacy and Conflict: Differences in Romantic Relationships Between Healthy and Diabetic Adolescents
Inge Seijjge-KrenheDating and beginning heterosexual relationships are normative and age-typical tasks for adolescents. They spend an increasing amount of time engaging in leisure activities with members of the opposite gender (Larson and Richards, 199 1) and exploring romantic relations in opposite-sex dyads (Csikszentmihalyi and Larson, 1984). The first experiences with dating and romance are undoubtedly critical to the development of adult heterosexual relationships (Furman and Wehner, 1994). However, not all adolescents are able to deal easily with dating and beginning romantic relationships, and there are great differences in the intensity and developmental speed with which adolescents approach such tasks (Cantor, Acker, and Cook-Flannagan, 1992).In the past, much attention has been directed toward understanding the sexual aspects of adolescent romantic relationships, while the qualities of such relationships have been ignored until very recently. Consequently, existing knowledge is more of a quantitative nature. Studies have shown a progressive increase in the frequency and prominence of romantic activities, as well as systematic changes in the structure and context of opposite sex contacts (Blyth, Hill, and Thiel, 1982).Variables that determine the onset of intercourse in heterosexual relationships have been a further area of study. The processes involved in making the transition to nonvirginity have been studied almost exclusively by North American investigators (Jessor and Jessor, 1975;Strouse and Fabes, 1987). In these studies, though, the quality of romantic relationships was of minor