1998
DOI: 10.1037/h0080277
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Children's construction of a deceased parent: The surviving parent's contribution.

Abstract: Constructing a connection to the deceased is helpful to children in adjusting to the death of a parent. Using interview data from a subset of a larger study of childhood bereavement, this paper describes ways in which parents help children, ages 10-12, build this connection, provides case examples contrasting parental attitudes and behavior that are helpful and those that are not helpful to the child, and offers implications for clinical practice.

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“…These were affirming connections that seemed to enhance the child's self-esteem and rooted the deceased in the child's current life in a positive sense. In contrast to parents in the new analysis, the surviving parents in Normand's sample helped their children remember the dead parent in a way that had positive consequences for the family and facilitated their mourning (Nickman, Silverman, & Normand, 1998).…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…These were affirming connections that seemed to enhance the child's self-esteem and rooted the deceased in the child's current life in a positive sense. In contrast to parents in the new analysis, the surviving parents in Normand's sample helped their children remember the dead parent in a way that had positive consequences for the family and facilitated their mourning (Nickman, Silverman, & Normand, 1998).…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Their definitions of positive adjustment were varied and coincided with those in the literature, with some examples being emotional availability, promoting open communication and expression of feelings, and serving as a healthy grief role model for the child (Nickman et al, 1998;Raveis et al, 1999;Worden, 1996). Participants also gave some new definitions not present in the literature such as the caregiver being able to be in control and be relied on, portraying a feeling of security to the child, and being able to strike a balance between supporting the child in his/her grief and dealing with the caregiverÕs own grief.…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 96%
“…New bereavement research challenges old conceptions of what is useful in the grieving process by presenting data that supports the ways in which children construct inner representations and connections to the dead parents (Klass, 1987(Klass, -88, 1988Klass, Silverman, & Nickman, 1996;Nickman, Silverman, & Normand, 1998;Rosenblatt & Elde, 1990;Rubin, 1985;Silverman, 2000;Silverman, Nickman, & Worden, 1992) These connections can allow children and adolescents to accommodate to living without the parent. A number of writers (Baker, 2001;Klass & Walter, 2001;Normand, Silverman, & Nickman, 1996;Silverman et al, 1992) have discussed a variety of strategies that children, adolescents, and adults use to maintain connections with the deceased.…”
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