Thermodynamically driven self-assembly offers a direct route to organize individual nanoscopic components into threedimensional structures over a large scale [1][2][3] . The most thermodynamically favourable configurations, however, may not be ideal for some applications. In plasmonics, for instance, nanophotonic constructs with non-trivial broken symmetries can display optical properties of interest, such as Fano resonance, but are usually not thermodynamically favoured 4 . Here, we present a self-assembly route with a feedback mechanism for the bottom-up synthesis of a new class of symmetry-breaking optical metamaterials. We self-assemble plasmonic nanorod dimers with a longitudinal offset that determines the degree of symmetry breaking and its electromagnetic response. The clear difference in plasmonic resonance profiles of nanorod dimers in different configurations enables high spectra selectivity. On the basis of this plasmonic signature, our self-assembly route with feedback mechanism promotes the assembly of desired metamaterial structures through selective excitation and photothermal disassembly of unwanted assemblies in solution. In this fashion, our method can selectively reconfigure and homogenize the properties of the dimer, leading to highly monodispersed aqueous metamaterials with tailored symmetries and electromagnetic responses.In the last decade, control over structural symmetries has led to novel materials properties and the prediction of potentially exciting applications. Optical metamaterials 5 , unlike conventional materials, can be designed to have negative refraction, rainbow trapping and nonlinear metal optics. However, particularly rich and exciting physics comes into play when symmetry-breaking mechanisms are introduced that have the potential to enable strong anisotropic plasmon hybridization 6 , leading to unusual phenomena including plasmon-induced transparency 7 , anti-Hermitian plasmonic antennas 8 and optical magnetism, and consequently negative-index metamaterials 9 . These intriguing properties can be used in a number of important applications, such as subwavelength imaging, optical cloaking and sensing [10][11][12] . These applications could be hindered by the fact that most structures are fabricated predominantly by top-down lithography, a technique that is inefficient for producing isotropic metamaterials in three dimensions and is often not cost-effective for large-scale fabrication. To mitigate these limitations, self-assembly approaches have recently been explored. However, they generate the most thermodynamically favourable structure, which usually results in a high degree of structural symmetry and inevitable inhomogeneity. For example, such self-assembly methods have been used to synthesize symmetric coupled plasmonic nanoclusters on a substrate 13 . Very recently, assisted by DNA or polystyrene-particle scaffolds, a circular dichroic plasmonic cluster and optical metafluid with high symmetry have also been reported 14,15