The present study aimed to examine gender differences in autonomy-connectedness in a large, Dutch, representative community sample (N=2,256). All participants completed the Autonomy-Connectedness-Scale (ACS-30; Bekker and van Assen, J Pers Assess 86:51-60, 2006) with subscales self-awareness (SA), sensitivity to others (SO), and capacity to manage new situations (CMNS), and a scale measuring demographic factors. We found much higher SO in women than in men, and slightly higher scores of men on SA and CMNS. Associations between SO and socio-demographic variables related to caring for others could be completely explained by gender, while the associations between SA and CMNS with socioeconomic independence variables could only partly be explained by gender. ACS-30 norm scores are presented, and clinical implications of our results are discussed.