“…"Taking gender seriously has until recently mostly meant taking women into account" (Morgan, 1981, as cited in McKee & O'Brien, (1983). Even those studies that presume to study parents of children with disabilities are often studies of maternal attitudes or research about fathers' attitudes derived from or through the influence of the mothers (Bailey, Blasco, & Simeonsson, 1992;Cooper & Allred, 1992;Gallagher, Cross, & Scharfman, 1981;Krause, 1993;Linder & Chitwood, 1984;McKee & O'Brien, (1983) ; Meyer, 1986;Schilling, Schinke, Kirkham, 1985;Traustadottir, 1991;Willoughby & Glidden, 1995;Young & Roopnarine, 1994). McKee and O'Brien (1983) found that husbands and fathers were generally inaccessible for research, that research was dependent on wives/mothers as a point of entry, and that wives needed to be won over to give permission for husbands to be approached.…”