The estimation of extreme loads from waves is an essential part of the design of an offshore wind turbine. Standard design codes suggest to either use simplified methodologies based on regular waves, or to perform fully nonlinear computations. The former might not provide an accurate representation of the real extreme waves, while the latter is computationally too intensive for fast design iterations. Here, we address these limitations by using the fully nonlinear solver OceanWave3D to establish the DeRisk database, a large collected dataset of extreme waves kinematics in a two-dimensional domain. From the database, which is open and freely available, a designer can easily extract fully-nonlinear wave kinematics for a wave condition and water depth of interest by identifying a suitable computation in the database and, if needed, by Froude-scaling the kinematics.The fully nonlinear solver is first validated against the DeRisk model experiments at two different water depths, 33.0[m] and 20.0[m], and an excellent agreement is found for the analyzed cases. The experiments are used to calibrate OceanWave3D's numerical breaking filter constant, and the best agreement is found for β = 0.5. We then compare the experimental static force with predictions obtained by the DeRisk kinematics database and the Rainey force model, and with state-of-the-art industrial practices. For milder storms, we find a good agreement in the predicted extreme force between the present methodology and all of the standard methodologies. At the deep