“…First, it is an event or series of events that are highly unusual, potentially psychologically destructive, and even life changing for people experiencing the event(s). Examples of such events, which can occur distally in childhood or more recently, are sexual abuse (Goodman et al, 1991; Lewinson, Thomas, & White, 2014), being robbed (Tsai, Edens, & Rosenheck, 2011), physical violence (Taylor & Sharpe, 2008; Young, Shumway, Flentje, & Riley, 2017), threatened with a weapon, held captive, or kidnapped (Taylor & Sharpe, 2008), sudden loss of a job (Stinson, 2010), abandonment or betrayal especially by a partner or close family member (Mackelprang et al, 2014), family conflict (Lewinson et al, 2014), and being involved in a life‐threatening accident (Taylor & Sharpe, 2008). All of these examples concern what the field of forgiveness studies calls unjust life events (Enright & Fitzgibbons, 2015) caused by persons who act unfairly or do not give the victim what is deserved, such as respect, a fair wage, or physical protection as examples.…”