“…Then the knight would offer to do whatever the lady might wish, however difficult or trifling, and he would honor her. In return there was expectation of a reward (Provençal guerdon , Italian guiderdone , see, e.g., Barolini, 1993) that might be sexual, that might be conversation in which the lover came to know his lady, or that might be a little as a glance of approval. These practices gave rise to some of Europe's finest poetry of the time, such as the story of Lancelot and his love for Guinevere, wife and queen of King Arthur, told by the French poet Chrétien de Troyes, (1180/1990), in “The Knight of the Cart.” It is thought that among the effects of these practices were beginnings of a civilizing process, and the words “courtship” and “courtesy” derive from this process.…”