To isolate individual neutral atoms in microtraps, experimenters have long harnessed molecular photoassociation to make atom distributions sub-poissonian. While a variety of approaches have used a combination of attractive (red-detuned) and repulsive (blue-detuned) molecular states, todate all experiments have been predicated on red-detuned cooling. In our work, we present a shifted perspective -namely, the efficient way to capture single atoms is to eliminate red-detuned light in the loading stage, and use blue-detuned light that both cools the atoms and precisely controls trap loss through the amount of energy released during atom-atom collisions in the photoassociation process. Subsequent application of red-detuned light then assures the preparation of maximally one atom in the trap. Using Λ-enhanced grey molasses for loading, we study and model the molecular processes and find we can trap single atoms with 90% probability even in a very shallow optical tweezer. Using 100 traps loaded with 80% probability, we demonstrate one example of the power of enhanced loading by assembling a grid of 36 atoms using only a single move of rows and columns in 2D. Our insight will be key in scaling the number of particles in bottom-up quantum simulation and computation with atoms, or even molecules.