“…Numerous studies show positive relationships between alexithymia and symptoms of internalising problems, such as anxiety and depression in adults and children (Berthoz, Consoli, Perez-Diaz, & Jouvent, 1999;Grabe, Spitzer, Freyberger, 2004;Honkalampi, Hintikka, Tanskanen, Lehtonen, & Viinamaki, 2000;Rieffe et al, 2006). However, feeling 'bad' about an argument with a classmate is less reflective of the emotional experience than feeling angry because he took your pencil away, scared because you think he might break it, and perhaps feeling sad because the pencil was a birthday present you very much liked and now cannot use.…”