Reactions of a host of metal precursors with pyridyl-(benzamide)-functionalized C 2 -methyl-protected imidazolium salts [L 1 H 2 ]I and [L 2 H]I afforded the metal−methyleneimidazoline (MIz) compounds [Ru(L 1 -κC 1 )(p-cymene)]I (1), [Mn(L 1 -κC 1 )(CO) 3 ] (2), [Ru(L 2 -κC 1 )(pcymene)Cl]PF 6 (3), and [Ir(L 2 -κC 1 )(Cp*)Cl]PF 6 (4) in the presence of different external bases, such as LiHMDS, Na 2 CO 3 , t BuOK, and NaH. However, the use of NaOAc led to the selective formation of the metal− mesoionic carbene (MIC) compounds [Ru(L 2 -κC 5 )(p-cymene)Cl]PF 6 (5), [Ir(L 2 -κC 5 )(Cp*)Cl]PF 6 (6), [Ir 2 (L 1 -κC 5 )(Cp*) 2 I]PF 6 (8), and the orthometalated compound [Ir(L 1 )(Cp*)I] (7). All compounds have been characterized by spectroscopic techniques and X-ray crystallography. Being more acidic, the C 2 -methyl is readily deprotonated by the external base to give the metal−MIz products. A metal-bound acetate, in contrast, interacts selectively with the imidazolium C 5 −H and drives the reaction toward the metal−MIC formation. DFT calculations support a concerted metalation−deprotonation pathway for selective C−H activation and metalation.