“…IRT (Hendrix, 1988(Hendrix, /2008) is a theoretical and applied methodology for working with couples in committed relationships (Martin & Bielawski, 2011). The theory integrates psychodynamic approaches (e.g., ego psychology, attachment theory, and object relations psychology), transactional analysis, and cognitive-behavioral approaches and contends that unconscious factors play a significant role in the selection of a partner (Zielinski, 1999). IRT theorizes that unconscious partner selection creates an opportunity to heal a connection that was lost in childhood by increasing empathy, understanding, and communication (Love & Shulkin, 2001).…”