“…Such accounts, rather than attempting to come to grips with the actual side-by-side of the range of relationships, pit friendship's private and public variants against one another. In this conceptual zero-sum game, intimate friendship, now devalued, finds itself hermetically sealed in a sphere of its own, unable to partake of, or contribute to, anything notionally 'public' (Blatterer, 2018(Blatterer, , 2019.…”