“…Domestic labour is an uncomfortable relationship to participate in. The asymmetrical nature of the relationship is often displayed through unspoken boundaries, rules and resistance related to space (Dickey, 2000; Murray and Lambert, 2019), food (Archer, 2011) and in cases of possible confrontation and its avoidance (Marais and Van Wyk, 2015; Murray and Durrheim, 2019b). So much of this relationship is navigated in the realms of the ambiguous, the unspoken, the implied, the invisible and the silent (Archer, 2011; Murray and Durrheim, 2019b).…”