Absorption of stellar X-ray and extreme ultraviolet (EUV) radiation in the upper atmosphere of close-in exoplanets can give rise to hydrodynamic outflows, which may lead to the gradual shedding of their primordial light element envelopes. Excess absorption by neutral helium atoms in the metastable 2\,$^3$S state mhe at sim 10,830 A has recently emerged as a viable diagnostic of atmospheric escape. Here we present a public add-on module to the 1D photoionization hydrodynamic code ATES, designed to calculate the transmission probability for a broad range of planetary parameters. By relaxing the isothermal outflow assumption, the code enables a self-consistent assessment of the absorption depth along with the atmospheric mass-loss rate and the outflow temperature profile which strongly affects the recombination rate of into We investigate how the transit signal can be expected to depend upon known system parameters, including host spectral type, orbital distance, and planet gravity. At variance with previous studies, which identified K-type stars as favorable hosts, we conclude that late M dwarfs with Neptune-sized planets orbiting at sim 0.05-0.1 AU can be expected to yield the strongest transit signal, well in excess of 30<!PCT!> for near-cosmological He-to-H abundances. More generally, we show that the physics that regulates the population and depletion of the metastable state, combined with geometrical effects, can yield somewhat counterintuitive results, such as a nonmonotonic dependence of the transit depth on orbital distance. These are compounded by a strong degeneracy between the stellar EUV flux intensity and the atmospheric He-to-H abundance, both of which are highly uncertain. Compared with spectroscopy data, now available for over 40 systems, our modeling suggests either that a large fraction of the targets have helium-depleted envelopes or that the input stellar EUV spectra are systematically overestimated. The updated code and transmission probability module are available publicly as an online repository.