We present new medium resolution, optical long-slit spectra of a sample of 6 UV/optical and 17 X-ray selected tidal disruption event candidate host galaxies. We measure emission line ratios from the optical spectra, finding that the large majority of hosts are quiescent galaxies, while those displaying emission lines are generally consistent with star-formation dominated environments; only 3 sources show clear evidence of nuclear activity. We measure bulge velocity dispersions using absorption lines and infer host black hole (BH) masses using the M -σ relation. While the optical and X-ray host BH masses are statistically consistent with coming from the same parent population, the optical host M BH distribution has a visible peak near M BH ∼ 10 6 M , whereas the X-ray host distribution appears flat in M BH . We find a subset of X-ray selected candidates that are hosted in galaxies significantly less luminous (M g ∼ -16) and less massive (stellar mass ∼ 10 8.5−9 M ) than those of optical events. Using statistical tests we find suggestive evidence that, in terms of black hole mass, stellar mass and absolute magnitude, the hard X-ray hosts differ from the UV/optical and soft Xray samples. Similar to individual studies, we find that the size of the emission region for the soft X-ray sample is much smaller than the optical emission region, consistent with a compact accretion disk. We find that the typical Eddington ratio of the soft X-ray emission is ∼ 0.01, as opposed to the optical events which have L BB ∼ L Edd . The latter seems artificial if the radiation is produced by self-intersection shocks, and instead suggests a connection to the SMBH.