“…Multiple specific stressors, which may differ for men and women, relate to each of these major factors. For example, one partner might resent or blame the other partner for the couple's infertility (Bos, van Dijk, & Lambers, 1982), both partners may be at different phases of the grieving process and be unable to support one another (D'Andrea, 1984), the expense of AID may pose a hardship, or a couple may experience a loss of privacy (Diamond, Christianson, Daniell, & Wentz, 1983) or a decline in sexuality (Bos et al, 1982;Diamond et al, 1983). Other stressors may include feeling unable to make plans (Frank, 1984), a sense of failure at each menstrual period (Blaser et al, 1988;Reading, Sledmere, & Cox, 1982), concerns about secrecy and confidentiality (Berger et al, 1986;Matot & Gustin, 1990), concern regarding legal rights to a child conceived by AID, or nonacceptance of the AID child by the nonbiologic father (Blaser et al, 1988;Dennerstein & Morse, 1988;Francis & Nosek, 1988;Matot & Gustin, 1990).…”