“…Intimate communication is one of the most important emotional concerns in married life and also one of the important reasons for lasting marriages (Mirgain and Cordova, 2017).Over time and facing the various challenges of married life and the lack of necessary skills to improve the quality of the marital relationship, couples gradually become conflicted (Masumitabar et al, 2021).One of the treatment methods that is effective in various fields, including; Improving romantic relationships (Neff KD and Beretvas, 2013); Hope, self-esteem and mental health (Elaine Beaumont and Hollins, 2016); Intimate attitudes and reducing the desire for divorce and incompatibility and marital conflict (Dasht Bozorgi et al, 2017, Ragabi et al, 2017, Khalatbari, et al, 2018 have been successful, treatment focuses on compassion. Compassion emphasizes the important principle that images, thoughts, experiences, and soothing external and external behaviors must be internalized; In this way, the person's mind calms down in dealing with these internal and external issues (Gilbert, 2014) as it reacts to external and external issues.…”