Parameter inference for stochastic differential equation mixed effects models (SDE-MEMs) is a challenging problem. Analytical solutions for these models are rarely available, which means that the likelihood is also intractable. In this case, exact inference is possible using the pseudo-marginal method, where the intractable likelihood is replaced by its nonnegative unbiased estimate. A useful application of this idea is particle MCMC, which uses a particle filter estimate of the likelihood. While the exact posterior is targeted by these methods, a naive implementation for SDEMEMs can be highly inefficient. We develop three extensions to the naive approach which exploits specific aspects of SDEMEMs and other advances such as correlated pseudomarginal methods. We compare these methods on real and simulated data from a tumour xenography study on mice.